Thursday, 21 February 2013

Why Women cry?


Why Women cry
WHY WOMEN CRY

A little boy asked his mother, "Why are you crying?" "Because I'm a woman," she told him.

"I don't understand," he said. His Mom just hugged him and said, "And you never will."

Later the little boy asked his father, "Why does mother seem to cry for no reason?"

"All women cry for no reason," was all his dad could say.

The little boy grew up and became a man, still wondering why women cry.

Finally he put in a call to God. When God got on the phone, he asked, "God, why do women cry so easily?"

God said, "When I made the woman she had to be special.

I made her shoulders strong enough to carry the weight of the world, 

Yet gentle enough to give comfort.

I gave her an inner strength to endure childbirth and the rejection that many times comes from her children.

I gave her a hardness that allows her to keep going when everyone else gives up, and take care of her family through sickness and fatigue without complaining.

I gave her the sensitivity to love her children under any and all circumstances, even when her child has hurt her very badly.

I gave her strength to carry her husband through his faults and fashioned her from his rib to protect his heart.

I gave her wisdom to know that a good husband never hurts his wife, but sometimes tests her strengths and her resolve to stand beside him unfalteringly.

And finally, I gave her a tear to shed. This is hers exclusively to use whenever it is needed."

"You see my son," said God, "the beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair.

The beauty of a woman must be seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart - the place where love resides."

Who causes most car accidents?




 Who causes most car accidents?



Not  cellphones.. or  the radio

or the GPS monitor.

Not talking. Not texting

or watching a car video

or changing CDs ..

The most frequent causes

of traffic accidents are:



Pretty Woman !


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10 Interesting Facts About Dreams




10 Interesting Facts About Dreams



Last night I was watching the movie Inception. Most of you must have seen it and know that it is about dreams. In this movie a team of young people dream at will and share the same dream with each other at the same time ——-interesting isn’t it.
During the Roman Era dreams were thought to be messages from the gods and even submitted to the Roman Senate for analysis and dream interpretation. Dream interpreters used to accompany military leaders into battles and campaigns!
Here is a list of interesting facts about dreams.

10. We Forget 90 % of Our Dreams:

We forget most of of our dreams after we wake up and those dreams which we remember can be with missing content. We forget half our dream within 5 minutes of waking and 90% of the content is gone within 10 minutes.

9. Everybody Dreams:

Nobody is exempted from dreaming no exceptions, if you think you don’t dream then its a case of poor memory and you entirely forget your dreams.

8. Blind People Dream Too:

Those people who become blind after birth can see images in their dreams. Those people who are blind by birth do not see any images, however they dream equally vivid involving their other senses of sound, smell, touch and emotion.

7. Animals Also Dream:

Research has been done on animals’ sleep using electroencephalography to study electrical brain activity and it has shown similar waves as in human sleep during dreams. If you observe a sleeping dog it moves its paws and makes other similar movements and produces sounds as if dreaming.

6. Colored Dreams Are Not For Everybody:

Research done from 1915 to 50′s showed that 12% of sighted people dream exclusively in black and white while remaining number dream in full color. Recent Research has shown that today only 4.4% of the dreams of under-25 year-olds are in black and white this changing trend has been attributed to the switch from black-and-white film and TV to color media.

5. Dreams Have Symbolic Interpretation:

Dreams are usually symbolic and whatever subjects, objects or events you see in your dream cannot be interpreted according to there literal meanings instead dreams can only be interpreted in a deeply symbolic language.

4. Emotions During Dreams:

One can experience a variety of emotions during a dream including happiness, joy, excitement, anger, fear etc. But the most common emotion experienced in dreams is anxiety and negative emotions are more common than positive ones.

3. Number And Duration Of Dreams In A Night’s Sleep:

On the average a human being can dream from one to hours in total during a night’s sleep and sees four to seven dreams during this period.

2. Paralysis During Dream:

The body is paralyzed during REM sleep by a mechanism in the brain to prevent the movements which occur in the dream from causing the physical body to move.
(Rapid eye movement (REM) sleep is a normal stage of sleep characterized by rapid movements of the eyes and constitutes 20-25% of total sleep, which is about 90-120 minutes of a night’s sleep.)

1. Incorporation Of External Stimuli:

Our mind interprets the external stimuli that bombard our senses when we are asleep and make them a part of our dreams. This means that sometimes in our dreams we hear a sound from reality and make it a part of our dream.

Bonus:

After above mentioned 10 facts about dreams I thought I should give a bonus interesting fact dreams:

People Can Even Experience An Orgasm During Their Dreams:

While dreaming you can not only have sex as pleasurable as in your real life, but also experience an  orgasm  as strong as a real one. The sensations felt while lucid dreaming (touch, pleasure etc.) can be as pleasurable and strong (may be even stronger) as the sensations experienced in the real world.

Interesting Facts About Divorce



Interesting Facts About  Divorce
  1. Only one U.S President is known to have been divorced: Ronald Reagan.
  2. In New York and Mississippi, a spouse can sue a third party for being responsible for the failure of a marriage in cases of what’s called “alienation of affection.”
  3. It’s a law in Wichita, Kansas, that if a man mistreats his mother-in-law, it cannot be used as grounds for a divorce.
  4. In 2012, an Italian man brought his mother along on his honeymoon. His new bride asked for a divorce three weeks later.
  5. In 2008, a woman asked for a divorce from her husband after his prosthetic penis extension snapped off during sex.
  6. The world’s oldest divorcées are a 99-year-old Italian man and his 96-year-old (ex) wife. He divorced her after 60 years of marriage when he found love letters she had written to her lover in the 1940s. They married in 1934 and divorced in 2011.
  7. In America, the divorce rate peaked at 50% in the 1980s. While the national divorce has declined, a first marriage is still between 40-50% likely to end in divorce.
  8. smokeA marriage is more likely to end in divorce if one partner smokes
  9. According to U.S. statistics, if one partner smokes, a marriage is 75% more likely to end in divorce.
  10. Research shows that couples in Republican states are 27% more likely to divorce than couples in Democratic states. Couples in Republican states have historically married younger than their Democratic counterparts.
  11. The most commonly cited statistic states that one in every four families will face divorce. More than one million people have parents who separate or divorce each year in the U.S.
  12. In ancient Chaldea, a man could get a divorce by writing a letter to his wife’s father or by saying “Thou are not my wife.” However, if the wife ever said, “Thou are not my husband,” she would be immediately drowned.
  13. In some Native American tribes, if a man left his wife without a serious reason, he was not allowed to remain a member of the tribe. Many tribes did not allow a man to separate from his wife if they had children together. The Aztecs were never permitted to divorce.
  14. In the Aleutian Islands, if a man grew tired of his wife, he would barter her for food or clothes.
  15. According to U.S. statistics, if there is daughter and no son in a marriage, the union is 5% more likely to end.
  16. The history of divorce is in large part a history of abandoning Catholic teaching on marriage as developed in the 13th century. Simply put, the Catholic Church’s position stated that divorce was forbidden because a validly contracted Christian marriage could be dissolved only by the death of a husband or wife.
  17. While historically the Catholic Church forbade divorce, the Pauline Privilege (found in 1 Cor. 1:15) states that remarriage by a Christian is allowed if a Christian spouse had been deserted by his or her non-Christian spouse. A second potential exception is if a marriage had not been sexually consummated and either the husband or wife wanted to enter a religious order. In both of these instances, divorce may be granted in “favor of the faith.”
  18. While the Roman Catholic Church historically banned divorce, Jewish and Roman law at the beginning of the Christian era were more lenient. Jewish law gave the husband extensive authority to divorce his wife if she “found no favor in his eyes, because he hath found some uncleanness in her.” Jewish law also gave women more rights in initiating divorce.
  19. Philippines villageDivorce is illegal in the Philippines
  20. In the Philippines, divorce is illegal. Any divorce that is conducted outside the country is not recognized within the Philippines.
  21. Burgundian law declared that a woman who tried to divorce her husband should be smothered in a mire.
  22. Divorce is illegal in Malta, a country that is controlled by the Vatican. It is one of the three countries in the world (all Catholic) where divorce is illegal, even if the marriage is not a Catholic marriage.
  23. The 5th Texas Court of Appeals recently ruled that same-sex couples who legally marry in other states cannot divorce in Texas.
  24. In ancient Rome, a couple could divorce just by declaring their intent not to live together in front of seven witnesses. Divorce was common, especially in the upper classes, and a divorced woman could receive her dowry back in full. She could also regain her independence upon a divorce. However, a woman found guilty of adultery would receive just half of her dowry. The law did not recognize adultery by husbands.
  25. Couples with children have a slightly lower divorce rate than couples without children.
  26. divorceThe divorce rate in America is around 41%
  27. In America, the divorce rate for a first marriage is around 41%. The divorce rate for a second marriage is 60%. The divorce rate for a third marriage is 73%.
  28. The average length of divorce proceedings in the United States is 1 year.
  29. The mean age of a woman for a first divorce is 29 years old. For males in a first marriage, it is 30.5. For a second marriage, the mean age for women is 37 years. For men in a second marriage, it is 39.3 years.
  30. Women on average wait 3.1 years to remarry after a divorce. Men wait 3.3 years.
  31. According to the Defense Department, the divorce rate of military couples rose form 2.6% in 2001 to 3.7% in 2011. The Air Force has the highest rate of divorce out of all the services.
  32. The divorce rate for couples over 65 years old has doubled since 1980.
  33. Western states typically have the highest marriage and divorce rates, followed by the South. The Northeast has the lowest marriage and divorce rates.
  34. According to 2012 U.S. Census Bureau statistics, New Jersey has the lowest divorce rate. New York, Connecticut, Delaware, and Massachusetts round out the top five lowest rates. The East coast in general has a divorce rate of less than 12%.
  35. According to 2012 U.S. Census Bureau statistics, Nevada has the highest rate of divorce at 14.7%. Wyoming, Florida, Kentucky, and Tennessee all have rates of divorce over 13.%.
  36. middle ageCertain factors decrease the risk of divorce
  37. Marriages are more likely to last longer when people marry at an older age, have a higher education, and earn more money.
  38. According to a recent study, dancers and choreographers reported the highest divorce rates (43.1%), followed by bartenders (38.4%), and massage therapists (38.2%). Rounding out the top 10 were casino workers, telephone operators, nurses, and home health aides.
  39. The 10 occupations with the lowest divorce rates are agricultural engineers, salespeople, and nuclear engineers, optometrists (4%), clergy (5.6%), and podiatrists (6.8%).
  40. A marriage in which a woman is two or more years older than her husband is 53% more likely to end in divorce than if the husband were three or more years older or only one year younger.
  41. Women who have been diagnosed with cervical cancer are more likely to divorce,  by 40%. If a man is diagnosed with testicular cancer, the marriage is 20% more likely to divorce. On contrast, breast cancer survivors are 8% less likely to divorce than women who have not had breast cancer.
  42. Having twins or triplets increases the risk of divorce by 17%.
  43. In Japan, visitors can write their divorce wishes on a piece of paper and flush them down the toilet in the Mantokuji Temple. The temple was traditionally a refuge for women seeking to escape an unhappy marriage.
  44. After the 2011 earthquake and tsunami in Japan, the country experienced an increase of divorces and divorce ceremonies.
  45. In China, when couples of the Jing people divorce, they throw away the pen and ink stone used to sign the divorce papers because they believe they contain bad luck.
  46. Islam has traditionally allowed divorce, which is referred to as talaq. However, it is considered the worst of all lawful things in the sight of Allah. The rates of divorce were higher in the medieval Islamic world and Ottoman Empire than they are in the modern Middle East, which typically has low rates of divorce.
  47. woman flabOne partner's weight gain can increase the risk of divorce
  48. Experts note that if a spouse has gained more than 20% of his or her body weight, divorce is more likely.
  49. The top five reasons for divorce in the U.S. include 1) communication problems; 2) infidelity or betrayal; 3) financial problems; 4) psychological, emotional, and physical abuse; and 5) loss of interest.
  50. Contrary to popular belief, premarital cohabitation does not increase a couple’s divorce risk—if the couple intends to get married.
  51. White women who marry outside their race are more likely to divorce than other ethnic groups. Mixed marriages involving blacks and whites were the least stable interracial marriage, followed by Hispanic-white couples.
  52. Children of divorced parents are twice as likely to drop out of high school and less likely to attend college.
  53. First marriages that end in divorce usually last approximately 8 years.
  54. Divorced men are at an especially high risk of alcohol abuse. In contrast, divorced women’s alcohol consumption falls sharply after a divorce.
  55. Approximately 6% of American couples marry, divorce, and then remarry each other.
  56. In 2/3 of all American divorces, it’s the woman who files for divorce. Additionally, while men are financially better off than women after a divorce, they are more likely to suffer more emotionally.
  57. asian womanAsian women on average stay married longer
  58. Asian women are the most likely to be in a first marriage that lasts over 20 years. The CDC concludes that 70% of Asian women are still in their first marriage, compared to 54 % of white women, 53% of Hispanic women, and 37 % of black women.
  59. Some researchers note that men are eight times more likely than divorced women to commit suicide. They are also twice as likely to suffer depression and heart attacks.
  60. The top six signs of an impending divorce include 1) dreaming of life without the spouse; 2) the bad in the marriage outweighs the good; 3) lack of communication; 4) engaging negative defense mechanisms, such as becoming overly defensive and dismissive; 5) a spouse feels like he or she is the only one trying to solve problems; and 6) the couple rarely, if ever has sex.
    Global Divorce Statistics
    RankCountryAmount per 1,000 People
    1United States4.95
    2Puerto Rico4.47
    3Russia3.36
    4United Kingdom3.08
    5Denmark2.81
    6New Zealand2.64
    7Australia2.52
    8Canada2.46
    9Finland1.85
    10Barbados1.21


    Divorce Statistics and Religion
    Religion% of Membership Divorced
    Nondenominational34
    Jews30
    Baptist29
    Episcopal28
    Pentecostal28
    Methodist26
    Mormons24
    Presbyterian23
    Catholic21
    Lutheran21
    Atheist/Agnostic21


    The Most Expensive Divorces around the World 
    1. Rupert and Anna Murdoch, Australian media mogul (1999)
    $1.7 billion
    2. Bernie and Slavica Ecclestone, business magnage (2009)
    $1-1.2 billion
    3. Adnan and Soraya Khashoggi, Saudi billionaire and arms dealer (1974)
    $874 million
    4. Craig and Wendy McCaw, founder of McCaw Cellular (1997)
    $460 million
    5. Mel and Robyn Gibson, actor (2011)
    $425 million
    6. Robert and Sheila Johnson, co-founder of BET and America’s first African-American billionaire (2000)
    $400 million
    7. Arnold Schwarzenegger and Maria Shriver, actor/politician, media (2011)
    $250-$375 million
    8. Roman and Irina Abramovich, Russian main owner of Millhouse LLC (2007)
    $300 million
    9. Michael and Maya Polsky, founder, president and CEO of Invenergy LLC33 (2003)
    $184 million
    10. Michael and Juanita Jordan, basketball player (2006)
    $168 million
    11. Samathur Li Kin-kan and Florence Tsang Chiu-wing, heir to a Hong Kong real estate fortune (2011)
    $154 million
    12. Neil Diamond and Marcia Murphy, musician (1995)
    $150 million
    13. Frank and Jamie McCourt, former owner of the Los Angeles Dodgers (2011)
    $131 million
    14. Tiger Woods and Elin Nordegren, golfer (2009)
    $100-$110 million
    15. Greg Norman and Laura Andrassy, golfer (2006)
    $103 million